Embracing Humility During Ramadan: Lessons from Surah al Hujurat on Scorning Others
- Laila Nasheeba
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Ramadan is a time for reflection, self-improvement, and spiritual growth. On the 28th day of Ramadan, Ustadah Laila Nasheeba shared a powerful reminder from Surah al-Hujurat, which calls on believers to avoid scorning others. This message is especially important as it addresses a common human failing: pride. Pride leads to looking down on others, which Islam clearly forbids. This blog post explores the lessons from Surah al-Hujurat on humility, the dangers of pride, and practical ways to embrace kindness and respect during Ramadan and beyond.
Understanding the Warning Against Scorning Others
Surah al Hujurat (49:11) states:
“O Believers! People should not scorn others for perhaps they may be better than them. Neither should women scorn other women, for they may also be better than them.”
This verse teaches us that no one has the right to belittle or mock others. The reason is simple but profound: we cannot know who is truly better in the eyes of Allah. Scorning others is a sign of arrogance and pride, which Islam condemns.
Pride is not just a personal flaw; it damages communities by creating divisions and hostility. When people scorn others, it breeds resentment and weakens the bonds of brotherhood and sisterhood that Islam encourages.
Pride Is Prohibited in Islam
Allah says in Surah an-Nahl (16:23):
“Indeed He (Allâh) does not love the proud.”
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) also warned against pride, saying:
“Allâh All-Mighty said: ‘Pride is My cloak, and Glory is My Wrap, so for he who competes with Me in either of these, I will cast him into the Fire.’”
[Abu Dawûd and Ibn Majah]
This hadith highlights how great pride is in Islam. It is not just a bad habit but a challenge to Allah’s authority and majesty. Pride blinds people to their faults and makes them unjust toward others.
How to Overcome Pride According to Islam
Ustadah Laila Nasheeba shared practical advice on how to rid oneself of pride. One effective way is to remember our humble origins. Allah reminds us in Surah al-Mursalât (77:20):
“Did We not create you from a fluid of no value?”
Reflecting on this truth helps us stay grounded. No matter how successful or accomplished we become, we started from something so simple and weak. This awareness fosters humility.
Another common source of pride is boasting about good deeds. Islam teaches that deeds are only accepted if they meet two conditions:
The deed must be done sincerely for the sake of Allah alone.
The deed must follow the way Allah has legislated.
If these conditions are not met, the deed loses its value and can become a source of arrogance instead of reward.
Practical Steps to Avoid Scorning Others
To truly embrace humility and avoid scorn, Muslims can take these practical steps during Ramadan and beyond:
Pause before judging: When you feel the urge to criticize or mock someone, remind yourself that only Allah knows their true worth.
Practice empathy: Try to understand others’ situations and struggles instead of dismissing them.
Celebrate others’ successes: Instead of feeling jealous or superior, be happy for others’ achievements.
Speak kindly: Use words that build people up rather than tear them down.
Reflect on your own flaws: Regular self-examination helps keep pride in check.
Make dua for humility: Ask Allah to soften your heart and protect you from arrogance.
The Importance of Respect Among Women
The verse from Surah al Hujurat specifically mentions women not scorning other women. This is a crucial reminder in a world where women often face harsh judgment from each other. Supporting and uplifting one another strengthens the community and reflects true Islamic values.
Women can lead by example in showing kindness, avoiding gossip, and encouraging each other in faith and good deeds. This creates a positive environment where everyone can grow spiritually.
Ramadan as a Time to Renew Our Pledge
Ramadan offers a unique opportunity to renew our commitment to humility. Fasting itself teaches patience and self-control, which are essential in overcoming pride. The spiritual atmosphere encourages us to focus on our relationship with Allah and with others.
By pledging not to scorn others, especially women, during Ramadan, we align ourselves with the Quranic guidance and prophetic teachings. This pledge can transform our interactions and help build a more compassionate community.
Final Thoughts on Embracing Humility
The lessons from Surah al Hujurat remind us that humility is a cornerstone of faith. Pride and scorn harm both the individual and society. By remembering our origins, examining our intentions, and treating others with respect, we can live in accordance with Allah’s guidance.
This Ramadan, let us commit to embracing humility, avoiding scorn, and supporting each other in faith. These actions will bring us closer to Allah and create a more peaceful, loving community.
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